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The elite families' dwellings in the upscale neighborhood, in a cosmopolitan town, reflect their comfortable lifestyle and social status. The weekend events, socials gatherings and inter actions among families were enjoyable and cherishable. Children of same age group were looking forward to weekend gatherings and enjoyment. At the outset, it appears harmony among them, yet outsiders failed to notice the fissures among their rank and file. The gap between have and have not was distinct and clear. Although the elite society did show kind heartedness superficially, yet their resentment and disregard to less fortunate people were visible in their gatherings.
The deprived families were those who lost their fortune and suffered the loss in terms of men and materials. The noticeable family was of Mr. Richard Reed, who was once rich and famous. His untimely demise made his wife Sara Reed a lonely lady with mounting responsibilities. She was a beautiful lady of remarkable feat. She was very versatile and matured in her outlook. The inheritance of family wealth has gradually depleted. The ripples of hardship were being visible making routine life rather uncomfortable. However, she decided to face the difficulties boldly and sensibly. Her determination and self-confidence were making inroads in her children's life more meaningfully.
Mrs. Reed was blessed with four children; two boys and two girls. They were all studying in school. Sara knew the hardship she has to face in the coming years. The resources were meagre and depleting gradually. She kept her cool and never revealed to anybody the dormant fear prevailing within her heart and mind. She knew certainly her inner strength, and wanted to establish her authority to combat all odds in their life. Every night when she was alone in her bedroom, she used to think seriously ways and means to share her feelings with children. It was necessary and demanding that children should grow on a mature footing and become confident in their life. She also thought that this would be the right time to make them learn the realities of life. It will guide them to adopt a balanced approach in life, rather than becoming a victim of materialistic glitter.
She determined to talk to children individually and collectively as deem fit. She made up her mind to spend reasonably more time with the elder children. It would give her an opportunity explaining them nuance between rich and poor in elite societies. The loss of fortune was noticeable to adults only, yet the children remained ignorant about its repercussion. Sara thought it was very important and necessary to educate these values to the grown-up children. She decided to spend quality time with younger children and convey to them the meaning of life in a playful manner.
Sara was waiting for the long weekend so that she can take the children to recreational events wherein quite a few cultural activities were planned. It was the most suitable and appropriate occasion to apprise the children the prevailing circumstances which are affecting them. They drove down to the nearby resort and joined the group of common friends and their families. The younger children were thrilled and immediately joined their age group and school friends.
After exchanging pleasantries, Sara excused herself and took the elder daughter and son to a quieter corner. They were admiring the natural beauty of that area and enjoying the snacks which they carried from home. Sara noticed a duck protecting the ducklings and moving around in that area. She pointed it to the children and asked, "What did they notice?"
Natasha, the elder daughter replied, 'The mother duck is having fun with her ducklings.'
Richard, the elder son said, 'A happy family.'
Sara said that at the outset, they both were right, as it was their first reaction; however, the mother duck's responsibility was beyond enjoyment. She is not only playing and enjoying with them but also protecting them against all sorts of dangers. Besides, she is teaching them how to survive and fight the odds.
The grownup children have understood the message as conveyed to them. She also emphasized that life goes through different phases experiencing challenges. It is the duty of every individual to live up to their expectation within the parameters of humility and dignity. She says that character building and personality development should be the hallmark of life. She asked them to set an example for their siblings. She smiles and hugged both the children and excused herself and joined the group of younger children.
The tiny tots saw their mother was approaching and ran towards her and hugged. She kissed them and took them to the lake side. She showed them the ducklings playing with the duck and enjoying. She told that she also loved them like the duck, and shall be with them all the time. She told them to be loving and caring to all and become a good human being. She also explained to them that the mother duck is taking care of the ducklings. Besides she is also teaching them how to survive and guarding them from dangers.
The following evening, Sara asked her children to wait in her bedroom after the dinner. She said, "There is a surprised about each one of them." All the children were impatient and eagerly awaiting her arrival. After about fifteen minutes, Sara came to her bedroom carrying a bag. She gave a broad smile and hugged every child. She gave a beautiful parcel to each of them. They asked her permission to open their respective gift wrap. They were so surprised that each gift was unique and to their liking. Every child asked the same question, as to how she managed to buy the gift for them, which were different yet adorable. Every gift was distinctly different and beautiful to their liking. They have individually and collectively thanked her.
Sara hugged every child and advised them to listen carefully and understand to what she is going to say. She asked them to pay attention to everything in life, irrespective of being significant or insignificant. The important thing is not its appearance or values, but its aims and objectives. She also emphasized that they must learn to be patience in their dealings, because it is a virtue. Sara encouraged the children to forgive those who offend them because it is the sign of brave people. She emphasized that the root cause of all evil is telling lies. You should remain honest all the time and be generous to those who are weak and deserving. Lastly, she said that God has been kind to His creations, and we must be thankful for His mercies. They hugged her and expressed their acceptance in unison. They, finally, departed and promised to look ahead towards a brighter future.
Lastly, she said that God has been kind to His creations, and we must be thankful for His mercies. They hugged her and expressed their acceptance in unison. They, finally, departed and promised to look ahead towards a brighter future.
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